15 DAILY HABITS OF WEALTHY PEOPLE

Creating wealth is easier said than done. With so many books out there on financial success and making money, it is only reasonable that you should wonder why the one percent is still only one percent. Although I took some personal finance classes back in college, I found myself still struggling to make ends meet. At one point my wife and I couldn’t even afford to buy chewing gum as it wasn’t a necessary grocery item. In my desperation, I decided to embark on a personal journey to learn why my life was the way it was.

I wanted to know why some people appeared to have such ease in generating wealth and money.
What I found was astonishing. In this article I will share these tips with you and no they are not about will power. Without getting too much into the topic of money and inflation, I want to share 15 daily habits of the wealthy.

7 REASONS WHY QUITTING FACEBOOK NOW IS GOOD FOR YOUR FUTURE

For the past 100 years or so, there had been huge improvements in communication. From letters to telephone calls, from telephone calls to text messages, from texts to video calls and from to videos to social network and on and on. Following all these improvements, one of the biggest inventions of the 21st century was founded in 2004 and since then it started to spread like an epidemic virus, first in the US and then around the world.

Now Facebook has more 1.23 billion monthly active users. Although initially it aimed to bring all people together for the sake of connecting, the effects of Facebook on masses became a huge discourse after it gained so much popularity. Until now, lots of disadvantages had already been listed. It is now time to list the ones that definitely affect your productivity.

15 DIFFERENCES BETWEEN THE BOY YOU DATE AND THE MAN YOU MARRY

When you’re dating a guy, it’s easy to think he’s perfect. You’re in a love haze, so be careful because there are definite differences between the boy you date and the man you marry. It’s true that people can change, so don’t ditch a guy just because he seems like a slacker at first. It’s okay to give him a chance to prove himself. However, if you don’t eventually see some of these characteristics, don’t be afraid to dump him and move on to someone new. If you’re young and having fun at this point in your life, it’s okay to date around and have flings, but before long you’re going to want to settle down, so make sure you do it with a quality man, not an immature boy.

14 DIFFERENCES BETWEEN THE GIRL YOU DATE AND THE WOMAN YOU MARRY

Think about one of the questions below for a moment.

If you are married, in what way is the girl you dated different from the woman you married? If you are single or dating, in what way do you want the woman you marry to be different from the girl you are dating? What thoughts come to your mind? I bet you have a few thoughts, I also do.

After being married for over 3 years to my awesome wife, l can testify that the girl l dated is different from the woman l proudly call my wife. She has definitely improved in ways I never imagined, and for the better.

If you go through dating and your marriage journey, you will inevitable look back to realize the girl you dated is different from the woman are married to. To clarify, l do not mean she would become a brand new person. What l mean is that her priorities and perspective about life and marriage will improve in many ways. Hopefully, for the better.

Either way, the woman you marry will not be the same as the girl you dated.

1. The girl you date does not want to meet your family or friends, she wants you all to herself.
The woman you marry wants to know your family and friends. She knows without them, you would not be where you are, and who you are today.

10 DIFFERENCES BETWEEN MIDDLE CLASS AND RICH PEOPLE

According to Forbes, the 400 wealthiest Americans have more wealth than the bottom 150 million Americans combined. But what about the people in between? The middle class? You may be considered middle class. You’re not poor, but you’re not rich…yet. The middle class seems to be shrinking, according to the data revealed over the last couple decades. That means you’re going to be less likely to be middle class in the future. You’ll more likely be poor or rich. Which side do you want to be on?

If you want to be on the side with the rich, you’ve got to start thinking like the rich. Here are 10 differences between middle class and rich people for you to learn from…

5 NEW YEAR RESOLUTIONS THAT PEOPLE ALWAYS BREAK

THESE NEW YEAR RESOLUTIONS ARE USUALLY BROKEN

1. I’m gonna lose weight this year: I know tons of people especially females who at the beginning of each year would be like “errh! This year am gonna lose weight.” and when I see them at the end of the year, I’ll see them with more spare tyres ( y’all know what I mean). Well this is a new year resolution that’s constantly being broken most especially by females. You think it’s easy to resist all the free suyas, shawarmas, meat pies and all that delicious stuff that your guy is buying for you free of charge ( Is it really free?). Well it’s not. It’s not easy to be disciplined enough to resist delicious food, it’s not easy to exercise and hit the gym every day. It’s totally not easy to eat mostly vegetables and fruits all day. If you have made a resolution to lose weight this year, please discipline yourself properly.

5 IMPORTANT REASONS NOT TO COMPARE YOURSELF WITH OTHERS

BE YOURSELF

  This is especially for all those copy-cats out there who keep on trying to form what they are not. Omo you don't need to try to be another person cause in spite of your best efforts, you will just come off as fake. When you give in to comparison, a lot of shit happens (depression, inferiority complex and the likes). So here are the five reasons:-

1. Everyone is different:  One of the most important reasons not to compare yourself with others is that everyone is different! People have different personalities, mannerisms, innate talents, physique and a lot of other things. You'll never be exactly like someone else, so why compare yourself to someone who is different from you?

2. You Can't change yourself: Well there are some things you can change; like if you like someone else's hair, you can go and dye yours, if you envy someone else's body, you can get plastic surgery. But envy doesn't stop at the surface. If you are jealous of someone's personality because they are more extroverted than you, or jealous of someone's intelligence because they are smarter and more successful than you, it's all really pointless. You can't change those things, because they are what make you you!.

3. You will never be content: Contentment is different from happiness, because while happiness is circumstantial, contentment is consistent and comes from the inside. Once you stop comparing yourself to others, you can focus on how awesome you and your life are, then find true contentment!

4. It's a waste of time and energy: Honestly, who has time to sit around getting jealous of someone else? It takes time and energy to compare yourself to others, and you have so many better, healthier, and more important things to do with your life!

5.  There's always someone: yeso! there is always someone better and always someone worse than you. No matter how pretty you are, there is always going to be someone prettier. No matter how smart you are, there will always be someone smarter. At the same time though, you are that “someone” to someone else. It’s pointless to rank and compare everyone, because there will always be “someone”!

                 So go ahead and live your own life and do away with that envy, comparison and fakeness. Be yourself; your very best self.

10 SIGNS THAT YOU GOT WHAT IT TAKES TO SUCCEED

    10 SIGNS THAT YOU ARE ON YOUR WAY TO SUCCESS

   

 

 Everyone in this life wants to be rich, famous, influential and respected. But you can't achieve all these if you don't have some certain characteristics or habits. Even if you have not achieved success but you do have these habits, success will come as long as you don't lose your persistence. Here are the ten signs that you have got what it takes to succeed.

You have a penchant for knowledge: If you are someone that loves learning a lot whether by reading books,listening to audio books, videos or whatever it is that improves your knowledge, then you are on your way to success. In this modern world, this vital productive habit is on the decrease. More people are after entertainment and fun stuff, they don't want to go through the rigours of learning. without knowledge, you cannot lead because readers are leaders.

You love planning: If you are someone that always loves to keep a pen and a biro and you use these tools to write out goals, plans on how to get to your goals, to-do lists and the likes, you are on your way to success. As that evergreen saying goes "Those who fail to plan, plan to fail". Planning gives you direction. It makes you to know where you are as an individual and where you are heading to. It is a super vital habit for a productive person.

You know how to manage your time: You should your priorities and you make time for them. You know what you should be doing and you avoid what you shouldn’t be doing. You've developed habits that make your life more efficient and productive. If you can’t manage your time, you can’t manage anything.

You have friends who are successful: A lot about your success in this life has to do with how strong your network is. And if you've got a network of successful friends then it's likely your own success will come soon.

You have confidence: Confidence is something that is admired by everyone. confidence shows that you have faith in your potential and in your ability to succeed. People need confident people around them, organisations need confident people working for them. Confidence makes people to follow you and believe in your dream.

People love being around you: When you observe that people love being around you, you are on your way to success if you can plan, work hard and believe in yourself. For people to be constantly around you, it means that they find you entertaining, confident, positive and intelligent. You can use that people's power to your advantage.

You are patient and persistent: If you are someone that is able to exercise patience and constantly persist in the face of adversity, then you are on your way to success. Most people nowadays are fast-lane kind of people, they want things to happen by magic. But successful people know that real success takes patience and persistence.

You are naturally motivated: If you are someone who is always in high spirits. If you are someone that is passionate and wants to achieve great and big things, there is every tendency that you will and that is success. Success is when you are able to achieve your defined target and affect lives positively.

You are improving everyday: If you are someone that makes conscious effort to improve everyday in your given field, as time goes on you will differentiate yourself from lazy and complacent individuals in your field increasing your chances to succeed. You have to improve everyday to have success in this life.

You have self-discipline and control: You need to be able to exercise discipline to do what you are supposed to do and avoid that which is detrimental to your progress. You also require self-control to avoid things that are adverse to your health, relationships and your life.

You are an early bird: Really successful people wake up early and use the advantage of the early hours to do a lot of stuff. Lazy people struggle to get out of bed and love to sleep a lot. Discipline yourself to wake up early and use those hours productively.

you can read 10 Top productivity tips here.
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7 REASONS WHY GUYS PREFER BAD GIRLS TO GOOD GIRLS

WHY GUYS PREFER BAD GIRLS TO GOOD GIRLS

 Recently I was discussing with a good Christian sister and she asked a really important question that got me thinking. At that time I couldn't provide her with concrete answers, so I decided to research. The question which she asked goes thus “ Why do guys choose bad girls over good girls?”. And after my research, this is what I was able to come up with.

10 WAYS TO BE A REAL MAN

Want to be a real man?

A real man is a role model: A real man is actually someone worthy of emulation. He knows how to be responsible, has good manners, good values and impeccable character. He is someone others want to be like.

A real man loves and values his family: A real man is someone who is naturally loving and caring. And when it comes to his wife and family; Nna mehn! It’s not a small thing. A real man values relationships. He loves his father, mother as well as his siblings. He is someone that can go to war for his family.yeah! He is that kind of man.

A real man reads and is well informed: In truth a real man is a leader and there is no way you can be a leader without being a reader. Areal man reads, likes to keep himself informed, is curious about events happening around him and eager to share his knowledge. Ladies if you are looking for a real man you won’t find him in someone that doesn't care about news, doesn't touch books and is nonchalant about events around him

A real man is decisive: A real man is someone that is able to make quick, firm and clear decisions which he will stick with. He is not someone who is unsure, indecisive and doubtful. He knows what he wants to do, what he can accept, what he values, what he wants to be and so on. He is not someone that when you ask him an important question about his life would reply “I don’t know”

A real man is focused and determined: A real man is someone that knows what he wants, is passionate about it and determined to bring it to fruition. He is focused and doesn't spend his time complaining, moaning or whining. He completes his mission.

A real man appreciates life: A real man lives each day grateful to God, his friends, his family and other people in his life. He knows how to respect people, how to relate with them and to be a person of value to others. He is passionate, full of energy and excitement. He tries to live life to the fullest so that at the end of the day, He has no regrets.

A real man likes to keep things simple: A real man hates complicating things and avoids complications. He is well organized, meticulous and pays attention to details. He avoids complicated relationships( doesn’t date many women most especially the ones that have issues) and knows how to make complicated issues seem simple.

A real man is self-reliant: A real man loves to take responsibility of his life. He is not someone that loves to depend on his mother, his father, his wife or even his friends. He is someone who believes that his future rests on his shoulders and is working hard towards achieving it. He strives for independence; to be his own man.

A real man doesn't speak carelessly: For a real man, his word is his bond. Whatever he says he tries to do, whatever promises he makes, he tries to fulfill. He is someone who is loyal and has his integrity intact

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A real man loves God: A real man acknowledges that there is a higher power. He knows that without God, he is nothing so he strives to live a godly life to that he would not be found wanting by his creator. His spiritual life is a source of blessing and inspiration to everyone around him